Hmmm, I don't know what to say. The difference for me is like night and day. Maybe if you're used to listening to digital sources (e.g. regular redbook CD's) then the difference won't be readily apparent. However, if you're used to listening to a decent analog source, then you might be more tuned to the enhanced resolution offered by DVD-A. I mean, that's the way I perceived it. I feel that DVD-A and SACD sound very close to analog.
Regular CD's have always bothered me. The difference between regular CD's and DTS/DD are not that great, sonically, to my ears, but either format is actually a step down from regular CD's. So, comparing DTS/DD to DVD-A is about as extreme as you can get (well, I suppose you could compare MP3 to DVD-A, but we won't go there). In any event, I would compare the difference to roller-skating on an asphault sidewalk versus roller-skating on the hard-wood floor of a well maintained roller-rink. You just get a much smoother, more natural performance.