Sit a ways back in the room and take in a performance. You can clearly hear the music and all the notes being played. Sit right up front and now you can tell what brand of rosin the 2nd violinist uses! (I mean from hearing the quality of sound from it. Not just seeing it sitting there!) **
If the performance is something you're interested in, a closer view/listen is very desirable.
To me, "audiophile"-ness has simply been about having the good seats!
You kind of ARE hearing some hidden details many other people are missing. Just like the stuff you catch from the front row live.
Hearing a recording you've been familiar with for a long time but suddenly magically from closer better seats is a joy! (ie. Getting a batter copy of an album. Or upgrading your system.) It's like getting to travel back in time and picking better seats this time!
I think even the guys who jumped off the deep end in the back pages of those audiophile magazines are on a quest to hear something interesting. Even if it's just to get into the club right? I heard the thing! I'm one of you!
Or something... Some of them may have lost sight of the forest for the trees of course but they're still on a quest to hear something I think.
Jeeze though, what kind of a quest are you on and what exactly do you think changed in the sound when you got those ceramic speaker wire stands? (Or insert your favorite silly product example.)
Or approaching that from the other direction:
Let's assume everything claimed is on point factual with some audiophile system. You have some million dollar treated listening room and 'money no object' speakers and all the other bits and your nose is firmly plastered to the ceiling.
So... There are like, 7 albums in the world that meet your standards to listen to?
That's a lot of kit for just a handful of the best recordings known to man!
** If that example is too snobby...
"Sit right up front and now you can tell what brand of heroin Nick Turner is using!"