Truth was, as much as I have always loved music and collecting vinyl, my one other love beyond family and friends has been cinema. But for all the great books I've read over the years, my most fun with writers and critics was Siskel & Ebert, by whatever title their show went by. Whether it was Sneak previews or At the Movies, or whatever, the joy was in hearing their opinions, bantering, contention, joy and anger at what they saw--what you could also get from friends or family joining you at a film, but never quite the same: these guys, unlike anyone else I knew (other than me, heh), referenced the past while also appreciating the immediacy of the present they would find on the screen.
And so, with Roger Ebert gone (Gene died in 1999), i'm left with memories arguably as fond as the films they reviewed--pro or con, thumbs up or down. They were a real pair, with brotherly love/hate but a complete passion for their calling, and rode it out to the max. After Siskel's passing, no one could really compete with Roger--I could sense how dominant he was beyond being the 'main guy.' Richard Roeper did his best, and others here and there tried--but the Siskel & Ebert marriage will remain as concrete in our minds and Holmes & Watson and Lennon & McCartney.
Roger Ebert's passing pains me beyond the obvious maybe most of all because--by sheer chance--I came across his very nakedly honest book Life Itself: A Memoir just after I was diagnosed with colon cancer. Not only that, but his outlook at his choices after the diagnosis, how you must adjust to reality day to day, to realize you will never be the same again and that it is not necessarily bad--helped me on my way to a recovery that is as ongoing as the dark truth that cancer cells waiting to reawaken can still be there, somewhere, to help kill me--as it did, eventually, to Roger, whose jaw/mouth cancer changed his face--but apparently, not his spirit. But despite all the nonsense about 'battling' or 'fighting' cancer, what you hope your body does is resist it, and that the treatments help you. What I've seen and read from the days after Ebert's leaving the hospital gave us a man unafraid to look different, just to be who he was, to still be Roger Ebert, just not as you used to see him.
Thanks, Rog, from a man who only knew you through your various newspaper and book writings and TV shows. Wish I'd taken the time to tell you all this. I hope others did, for we are not alone, are we?
ED
And so, with Roger Ebert gone (Gene died in 1999), i'm left with memories arguably as fond as the films they reviewed--pro or con, thumbs up or down. They were a real pair, with brotherly love/hate but a complete passion for their calling, and rode it out to the max. After Siskel's passing, no one could really compete with Roger--I could sense how dominant he was beyond being the 'main guy.' Richard Roeper did his best, and others here and there tried--but the Siskel & Ebert marriage will remain as concrete in our minds and Holmes & Watson and Lennon & McCartney.
Roger Ebert's passing pains me beyond the obvious maybe most of all because--by sheer chance--I came across his very nakedly honest book Life Itself: A Memoir just after I was diagnosed with colon cancer. Not only that, but his outlook at his choices after the diagnosis, how you must adjust to reality day to day, to realize you will never be the same again and that it is not necessarily bad--helped me on my way to a recovery that is as ongoing as the dark truth that cancer cells waiting to reawaken can still be there, somewhere, to help kill me--as it did, eventually, to Roger, whose jaw/mouth cancer changed his face--but apparently, not his spirit. But despite all the nonsense about 'battling' or 'fighting' cancer, what you hope your body does is resist it, and that the treatments help you. What I've seen and read from the days after Ebert's leaving the hospital gave us a man unafraid to look different, just to be who he was, to still be Roger Ebert, just not as you used to see him.
Thanks, Rog, from a man who only knew you through your various newspaper and book writings and TV shows. Wish I'd taken the time to tell you all this. I hope others did, for we are not alone, are we?
ED