It's a difficult problem. One always has to be mindful that the thing that drives one to distraction might well be someone else's all time favourite. It can be tricky getting the phraseology such that it conveys one's point of view without upsetting the other.
It would be nice if there was a separate thread for the technical approach to these mega sets...this way the wave form crowd could discuss their theories and adjustments in a separate thread...that way posters like me wouldn't have to wade thru all this stuff to just see some of the members comments that measure success or failure by how it actually sounds...that way the "honeymoon" for some of us could last more than just 1 day